In Group Fighting (Part 1)

In group here absolutely means "Family". Sometimes, children have problem with their parents. There are many condition of child that possibly being reason for the fight. But I want to share the 3 most unconscious condition that might be the reason of the fight.
ONE. When a child is on bad mood and in bad 'heart atmosphere', they usually just gonna take a little time to be alone to calm down their selves. But at the same time, parents need them to do something, and it makes the child getting anger, not getting better. This is the first condition. This may cause the child would get mad and just scream loud to parents, and the parents would do the same. Unexpected moment.
TWO. A child always wants to raise up their parents. When their parents got home, they want to welcome Mom and Dad, but what they've got is their parents mad to them. In this case, parents maybe in a occupation problem. A stressed adults usually just ran away from their environment which is actually could raise their bad mood up. And erase it. But they are too busy to know it well. In this time, they would mad to their child first and it definitely broke the child's heart.
THREE. A simple mistake being a big problem and then turn as a huge trouble for children. This is the most popular problem that I always heard from many child around me. They kept told me that their parents are too sensitive in solving problem. That should be over but they make it moreOVER. Some of parents rarely understand that their acts in this condition is really hurt their child. How it isn't? Child wants to say sorry, but the parents makes them worry when they explained their child just only could make trouble.

Now, how could children fix these hard parts?

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